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Gallipoli Medical Research Foundation
Tim thrived in the elite Australian Special Forces Commandos. But after serving for six years, Tim transitioned out of Defence and felt disconnected from his civilian friends, family and started drinking heavily.
After getting involved in veteran mental health research, Tim worked with Gallipoli Medical Research Foundation to trial the RSL Queensland-funded Go Beyond program. Now, thanks to RSL Queensland’s investment in evidence-based initiatives, Tim has re-discovered his purpose and drive, and is encouraging other veterans to access available support.
The research helps sculpt programs that RSL Queensland offers to veterans like myself, to make my life and the life of those around me, better.
Life as an elite Commando
Tim joined the Australian Special Forces Commandos in 2004 as part of the first direct recruitment intake.
“There was a group of 70 civilian personnel that started the process, and there were 15 that got through. At 30 years old, I was the oldest, and, most said I was too old. Regardless, I still consider myself very fortunate to be among those 15 who successfully completed the special forces selection,” says Tim.
As well as deployments to Afghanistan and East Timor, Tim enjoyed the experience of water-based operations the most.
“My favourite part was amphibious operations. Not everyone liked the ocean; I loved it. My favourite thing about the Commandos was getting out in the water.”
Tim left Defence without admitting he had physical and mental injuries. He thought transitioning out, getting a civilian job and moving on would be straightforward. But he soon found himself drinking heavily and telling himself and others that he was ‘fine’.
“I'd say ‘I'm fine, I'm fine’. It became a management strategy of telling myself if I keep doing this job well, then everything else will be fine.”
“In Defence, when you struggle in the job, you muscle up and get the job done. You keep going, regardless.”
Tim kept himself busy but couldn’t ignore the feeling that something was missing.
“I was certainly aware of the imbalances it was causing. Things were starting to fall apart for me, and I didn't know how to express that.”
Understanding what veterans need
Looking back, Tim realises that the challenges he experienced in transitioning back into civilian life were linked with how connected he felt to Defence. And how lost he felt without those connections.
“When I left Defence, I didn’t have those connections either side of me; I was struggling. I was feeling very alone and away from the herd,” says Tim.
“I eventually realised it’s not the pain that we can’t handle; it’s the isolation and the feeling like we’re the only ones going through this.”
While working at Mates4Mates, an RSL Queensland-established veteran support organisation, Tim came across Gallipoli Medical Research Foundation (GMRF) and their research into veteran mental health.
“There’s a lot of smart people out there, but GMRF were flexible; they asked the right questions in the right language by listening to the actual person in the scenario.”
“I could see good things happening and their commitment and confidence had me on board.”
Asking the right questions in the right language
GMRF in partnership with RSL Queensland developed the free online self-directed program Go Beyond, designed to help guide veterans through their adjustment to civilian life.
Tim completed the post-transition Military-Civilian Adjustment and Reintegration Measure, or the M-CARM, and Go Beyond.
“The M-CARM gives you information specific to you about where your needs are. You don’t have to learn anything and it’s exactly on the money,” says Tim.
“And then when you do the online Go Beyond modules, they’re specific to what you need so you’re not wasting your time.”
“To me, that is so much more efficient and individualised.”
“It often says things that you can't even say for yourself; it asks the right questions in the right language to see those needs come to the surface.”
The power of connection
Inspired by the work of GMRF, Tim became a veteran ambassador for the research organisation. He now speaks about the impact that Go Beyond has had on his life to encourage other veterans to seek support, because he knows there’s power in connection.
“We can deal with anything, but we can’t deal with loneliness. We don’t want to think we’re the only ones going through it,” says Tim.
“Go Beyond breaks the isolation, and that's where I see the real power is. Because I'm not going to learn anything new while I feel alone and isolated.”
Tim has found support and purpose thanks to GMRF’s research into veteran mental health.
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